The first date is incredibly responsible and important. The further development of your relationship with a man will depend on how you behave on him. After all, the first impression is then difficult enough to correct. Some girls are often nervous and do not know what to talk about at the first meeting.
Instructions
Step 1
Collect your thoughts and relax. On the eve of your date, scroll through the most common topics in your head about which you can have a casual conversation. This will help you avoid awkward silence, and you can easily get the conversation back on track. Do not overdo it by trying to impress a man and appear better than you really are. Also, you don't need to lead the conversation. Your conversation should be a pleasant dialogue, not your monologue with any revelations. But it is also not necessary to sit with a silly look and nod after each phrase of your interlocutor.
Step 2
Do not under any circumstances agree to a date if you have any problems, and even more so do not discuss them with a new acquaintance and do not ask him for advice. He doesn't need your difficulties. And if a man listens to you, it is only out of politeness.
Step 3
Do not talk to a man on the first date about illness, money, your and his intimate life, past men and relationships with them, etc.
Step 4
Try to listen more than talk. And do it very carefully, paying attention to any little things said by the interlocutor.
Step 5
Do not try to tell too much about yourself in one evening: where you live, with whom, where you work, where you study, etc. You should interest a man, and if you open up completely, he will quickly lose interest in you. Instead, try to find common themes and hobbies. People who share the same hobby interests are attracted to each other.
Step 6
When you talk about yourself, do not remember any unpleasant moments in your life. Better tell a couple of funny situations that happened to you. Men appreciate a good sense of humor. You can talk about your successes and achievements, but only without pathos. Remember, whatever you are talking about, try to be positive.
Step 7
When you come home after a date, remember your whole conversation with a man. This will not only help you get a big picture of the person you were dating, but also point out your mistakes. And even if you don't meet again, it will be an invaluable experience for you.
