The first date requires careful preparation, especially if you are nervous, think in advance about what you will talk about in order to avoid awkward pauses.
Instructions
Step 1
Quite an interesting and easy topic for conversation, personal environment. Family, brothers and sisters, friends. Of course, you shouldn't go into details, you can talk about how the family loves to spend time, mention interesting family traditions, tell us about your favorite pet, if you have one. People who love animals inspire confidence and dispose to themselves. You can add a little about friends, and funny moments experienced together, only in moderation, of course.
Step 2
It's hard to get around the topic of work and study. Not always, our work is directly related to the specialty received at a higher educational institution, so you need to be tactful when asking questions about work, but it is better to wait until the interlocutor tells about himself. Say about yourself what you think is necessary, there are no unworthy professions, because a person paints a place, and not vice versa. Share vivid impressions, tell interesting stories related to work, or student times.
Step 3
It is important to learn about personal hobbies. Ask questions, show a keen interest in this topic. After all, a certain hobby most clearly characterizes the inner world of a person. His way of thinking. Perhaps, having learned about strange preferences, the desire to make a second date will disappear.
Step 4
A good topic to keep the conversation going is to discuss your favorite food and drink, especially if you have visited a restaurant or cafe. Talk about some of the most incredible foods you've tasted. Perhaps you have grown fond of a certain cuisine abroad, and you have brought a couple of exotic recipes with you. This topic in itself gives rise to the idea of making dinner at home, on a second date.
Step 5
Do not be afraid to talk about the future, of course, you should miss the topic of children and marriage. Say what you want to achieve at work, what personal dreams to fulfill, which countries to visit, what interesting things you dream of seeing, what you definitely want to try in life. This topic just as well reveals the personal qualities of a person, by which one can judge his essence.
Step 6
Of course, on the first date, you need to show a sense of humor, only without vulgarities and stupid anecdotes. Interesting curiosities from your life, funny situations that happened with family and friends, an appropriate topic that will liven up the conversation.
