You live with a wonderful person, you are very good with each other, but lately you have increasingly begun to notice that they are blatantly lying to you. What does this mean and what to do about it?
Instructions
Step 1
Men tend to lie and embellish reality. Sometimes there is something behind it, sometimes not. Women tense up, feeling even a trifling lie. They ask themselves the question: if he is already lying on such trifles, then what will happen next? However, it is worth remembering that, firstly, all men are lovers of lying, and secondly, most often they lie because they love you, and not vice versa.
Step 2
If you ask any man why he is lying on all sorts of little things to his woman, he will answer that it is the woman who is forcing him. Most likely, this statement will make you smile, but in fact it is true. The fact is that a man knows what you want to hear, and therefore lies so as not to hurt your feelings. And you, in turn, wonder why you should cheat on such trifles. Breaking this circle is easy. To begin with, you should understand once and for all that men and women are from different planets, and they will never fully understand each other. What matters to you is the little things in life for him. Therefore, promise yourself not to take offense at your beloved and not scold him for trifles. And then tell your chosen one about it.
Step 3
Talk frankly, offer him the following scheme: within a week, he tells you exclusively the truth, and you do not swear at him. For example, you ask him to take out the trash, and he honestly replies that he is just too lazy to do it, and you calmly accept this answer. Or he calls you and does not say that he is late at work, but honestly admits that he is going to the bar with his friends, because he has not seen them for a long time. When a man realizes that you adequately respond to his little weaknesses, he will stop lying about trifles.
Step 4
Do not hesitate to confess to your loved one that you are lonely today and you want to spend the evening with him. Knowing that a loving, and not a grumpy woman is waiting for him at home, he himself will want to return to you as soon as possible.
