Often, women wonder why their loved one is behaving like a child. It would seem that he is an adult man, and does not stop playing computer games with passion and throwing socks around the apartment.
Instructions
Step 1
Often the reason for this behavior lies in the women themselves, who allow men to do this. Many girls have a highly developed maternal instinct, which tells them to take care of their husband, child, hamster, in general, about everything that the girl touches and is dear to her. And then they begin to feed the man, they wash his clothes, and the scattered things are removed after him. And at the same time they are outraged that a man behaves like a little child - he cannot do anything himself. Of course, most people will not do work that someone else can do for them, even if that someone is periodically unhappy.
Step 2
Perhaps your boyfriend simply does not understand your requirements. For example, you are used to arranging books by color and categorically do not want to see a book in a blue cover among the green ones, and a young man takes literature from you to read and then puts the books at random. Most likely, in his family the books are in alphabetical order, in height or in a chaotic order, and he does not understand at all what you are so worried about when the blue book is next to the green ones. He also does not understand why the sugar bowl should be on the shelf, and not on the table, why you need to put spoons and forks separately, if you can mix them together, and why you store the vacuum cleaner on the mezzanine, because it is much easier to throw it into a corner. Put yourself in the shoes of a young man: have you never put drills at random, considering it unnecessary to sort them by size? You should treat men in such a situation as with children - periodically explain why it is so important for you that the sugar bowl is in place, the vacuum cleaner does not interfere with opening the door, and beautifully arranged books decorate the room.
Step 3
Many girls strive to solve the problems of their beloved men. Of course, they do it with the best of intentions, but in the end, the man's mind is fixed that he is not good for anything, the woman is much more successful in solving problems for him, which means that it is not worth taking on this. As a result, after several years of marriage, the wife gets an infantile husband, behaving like a child and unable to make a decision, although she seems to have married an adult, independent man.
Step 4
And the last thing. Have you tried playing playstation yourself and watching cartoons on the kids' channel? Try to keep your husband company in your free time and, perhaps, there will be one more child in your family.
