Any parent wants to raise their child to be self-sufficient and able to build relationships with people who meet on the way. Many books have been written on the topic of raising a harmonious personality, but do not forget that a child learns by observing and feeling. Growing up, he absorbs the behavior of his parents, their manner of communicating and acting in the family and in society.
Dictate
Family despotism, suppressing the initiative of the baby in new life situations for him, leads to the fact that the child grows up with a strong "lameness" of independence. If a growing person from childhood observes the manifestation of diktat from a strong parent to weaker family members or to him, there is a high probability that he will accept this model of behavior. Having become a despot in relationships, sooner or later he will begin to apply his "power" to everyone to whom he can.
Guardianship
Perhaps this is the most common tactic of family behavior, because caring is the main thing in relationships with children, but everyone understands it differently. Excessive custody can make a child a weak-willed creature who needs help from outside in solving the simplest issues, and also give him the utopian understanding that everything is owed to him, and if not, then he must be taken by force.
Confrontation
Confrontation and "military actions" in the family create constant irritation and mutual resentment. The child learns to overly defend himself and at the same time to subtly notice and exaggerate the weaknesses of others. Growing up, he will also declare war on others "bad" around him, and will not forget about his parents.
Peaceful existence
This form of behavior between parents and a child becomes ridiculous when there is a position of extreme non-interference in the family. For the total freedom of choice of activities and actions, the individuality of the child, the family can pay with indifference and detachment from the family at its critical moments, when its participation and help is required.
Cooperation
It is believed that this form of family relations is the most harmonious. A small person grows up with an understanding of the value of himself and others, ready to support a loved one in difficult times, lend his shoulder, and can calmly count on the help of other people.
