Many new moms complain about their husbands. They say that they spend little time with their family, they do not take care of the child. But there is a certain strategy for a woman's behavior to avoid such problems.
Instructions
Step 1
It is necessary to teach a man to take care of a child gradually. This woman has been preparing to become a mother all her life and has been practicing changing dolls since childhood. This woman in the maternity hospital will teach a lot and explain a lot. And in nine months of waiting for a child, it is a woman who will read a lot of books, articles in magazines and the Internet about what and how to do with the child. The man has no such training. He may simply be afraid to do something wrong, to harm the child. Trust him child at first for a short time. Ask for a little help.
Step 2
You need to praise a man. Let him fasten the diaper a little crookedly, and after a few minutes the diaper will be unwound with a little effort of the child. But he did it himself. And why, in fact, should he succeed the first time? If something really does not work out at all, then instead of moralizing and reproaches, you can offer the correct option: “Try like this…. it usually works. This will give him courage and confidence in himself and in the ability to care for the child. After all, this is a new type of activity for a man.
Step 3
Pay attention to how happy your child is with dad. This is perhaps the most important stimulus for a man in communicating with a child. Notice every child's smile addressed to dad. The look that the child stops at dad should not go unnoticed. All this increases the importance of a man in his own eyes. He makes sure that the child needs him. That the care that he gives to the child will not go unnoticed and invaluable.
Step 4
You need to thank the man. Saying a simple "Thank you" - what could be easier? The man sat with the child for an hour and a half, allowing you to relax over a cup of tea with your favorite book? Tell him how important it was and how grateful you are to him. And in return, bake his favorite pancakes. This will certainly cheer him up and next time he himself will offer you to go to the hairdresser while he will enjoy communicating with the child.
