People spend the lion's share of their time at work. This circumstance pushes those who have not yet found a life partner to look for him in the immediate vicinity of their workplace. How to start an office romance?
Instructions
Step 1
Go through your mind about potential candidates for the role of your significant other. Weed out those who are married or famous for their adventures on the love front - the role of an unhappy lover or one of many is unlikely to brighten your life. Pay attention to the personal qualities of people, choose those that you like. At the end of the “selection”, leave in your field of vision 2-4 of the most suitable candidates.
Step 2
"Feel the ground" about how these people treat you, whether their heart is busy, whether they have any hidden flaws. For this purpose, talk more with people from their environment, collect information.
Step 3
Start communicating closely with candidates. Try to translate conversations with work topics into personal ones. Create a friendly atmosphere: be cheerful, joke witty, offer tea and cakes. On holidays, you can offer something stronger, if the authorities turn a blind eye to it.
Step 4
Pay maximum attention to your appearance. As one poem says, "be yourself, the best you are."
Step 5
Try to bring your communication with candidates outside the office. Start by inviting several employees to sit out after work in a restaurant or cafe. It's also a good idea to find common interest or hobbies. For example, if you and one of the candidates run in the morning and live nearby, offer to do these runs together. You can also turn to other feminine tricks: ask for help hanging a new chandelier or fix a lock.
Step 6
Do not rush to strike up an intimate relationship. First, by doing this, you can cross out the seriousness of the emerging relationship. Secondly, if a relationship with several candidates is brewing, you run the risk of being branded as a special easy behavior. Give yourself time to get to know each of the men better.
Step 7
When in the person of one of the candidates mutual sympathy and positive personal qualities coincide, and he will clearly make it clear that he wants to be with you, transfer him to boyfriends, and try to remain good friends with the rest.
