No wonder they say that the darlings scold - only amuse themselves. Relationships between lovers, which from the outside seem to be dysfunctional, can be quite suitable for each of them. Some people like to warm up the heat of feelings with violent quarrels, passionate reconciliations. However, there are situations in which friends and relatives simply have to intervene in the life of a couple. These are situations of any assault and other types of domestic violence by a man.
Instructions
Step 1
Determine the degree of danger of the situation to the life and health of your friend. If you find out that her husband is beating her, you definitely need to help her. Moreover, in some situations, psychologists recommend acting persistently, ignoring the attempts of the victim to justify the villain. Situations of domestic violence are rarely isolated. If a man can hit a woman at all, as a rule, he will not be limited to one episode. And the longer a woman stays with such a man, the more difficult it is for her to leave him. The more serious can be the physical injury and psychological trauma that her spouse will inflict on her.
Step 2
Look for experts who can tell you how to properly breed a friend in this situation. These can be doctors, psychologists, lawyers. The fact is that in many cases of domestic violence, the “executioner” husband does not want to let his “victim” wife go. He understands how difficult it is to find a woman who is able to forgive beatings, so he will hold on to her to the last. He can intimidate her, persuade her, overwhelm her with gifts, blackmail her. Changing anger to mercy and back, he completely disorients a woman in life, and sometimes only specialists can help her in this situation.
Step 3
Search together for options to arrange a friend's life after a tyrant leaves a wife without a livelihood. Moreover, they tend to even take away her personal savings and money that she earns on her own. This is also a way to keep the victim close: she often has nowhere to go. Recently, charitable organizations have begun to appear in Russia, which allow a woman with children to wait out the moment of divorce from her rapist spouse in a shelter. If relatives and friends do not have the opportunity to help a woman financially, such help centers can become a temporary shelter for her.
