In any relationship, quarrels and scandals occur. It's frustrating, but there is no other way to express your emotions. Quarrels give an excellent shake-up to any relationship, as long as the reason is not far-fetched. It is very important to understand in time that a small dispute can develop into a big scandal with much more serious consequences.
Often, strong resentment, pride, fear of being rejected, prevent the girl from taking the first step and asking the guy for forgiveness. In general, it is better to do this not immediately, but after a while. This is due to the fact that after a while you begin to understand more clearly that you are wrong. After that, you need to clearly understand for yourself that you must take the first step and apologize. You can start with simple words, if the guy has already calmed down, he will immediately forgive. However, if the young man is still offended and feels offended, you will have to try and ask for forgiveness in a beautiful and original way.
If you plucked up courage and took the first step, and you were not forgiven, do not be offended, because you can make several attempts. But keep in mind, if after the third attempt there are no results, leave the man alone, do not call him every day with entreaties, give time to think. However, the next step towards meeting must be made already on his part.
You can ask a guy for forgiveness in an original way, for example, by inviting him to a football, hockey, boxing, concert, movie, or by inviting him to ride on a motor ship, to jump with a parachute, finally. You can call his best friend as allies and organize such an event together with him. You can also have a picnic outside the city or arrange a meeting at a cafe or bar. The main thing is to know what the guy likes, then you can come up with a hundred different options to apologize.
After reconciliation, it is very important to try to keep the promises made to each other. Remember that people who value their relationship always try to find a compromise and negotiate with their other half. Learn to put yourself in the other person's shoes by trying to understand exactly how they are feeling at the moment.
Do not forget that, sometimes, succumbing to a bad mood or an outburst of emotions, people undeservedly offend loved ones.
Often, rash actions or accidentally uttered words become the cause of a quarrel, and it will be you who will be the culprit. Unfortunately, this is a fairly common situation, but it must be resolved with dignity, without spoiling the relationship. The only right decision in this case would be to admit your guilt and courage to admit it, asking for forgiveness.
The first thing that comes to mind for most people is to write a message asking to excuse you, because it is much more difficult to pronounce these words while stroking a person in the eyes. But neither the phone nor the computer can convey your emotions at this moment, you cannot show your remorse. If the girl is embarrassed to start the conversation first, then you can send a postcard by e-mail, which will convey the main feelings.
You can attach an offer to talk to the message, it is possible that the man will then let you know that he is ready to talk.
When you're ready to apologize to the guy, try calling him and asking if he is ready to meet you. Having received consent, take something tasty with you, and when you meet, immediately apologize, admitting that you were wrong. It would be nice to explain the reason for your behavior, but you need to do it calmly, without accusations and lectures.
You can, in a comic form, offer the guy to make amends. For example, promise not to comment on him for a week or go to football with him all weekend. Remember that humor can defuse any stressful environment. As a sign of reconciliation, you can arrange a romantic dinner or a walk to your favorite places.
Sometimes your loved one may be so offended that simply asking for forgiveness will not be enough. For example, if he considered himself very offended, he will have to apologize more than once. In this case, in order to fix everything, you should start with a frank conversation. In such a conversation, it will be very important to say that you do not expect quick forgiveness. In addition, it should definitely be added that the guy has every right to be offended. During the conversation, you need to repeat several times that you value your relationship and are afraid of losing it.
A man needs to be given time to think. When you ask for forgiveness, you do not need to call him every day and sob into the phone, he will, of course, forgive you, but the situation will remain unresolved, and the remaining unpleasant aftertaste will eventually develop into a big scandal. In addition, gross manipulation and blackmail are unacceptable in a relationship, and you should also not overwhelm a guy with expensive gifts for the sake of forgiveness. You cannot blame the young man for what happened, because the result of such a conversation may be another, more serious quarrel.
