Girls who have been dating guys for a long time sometimes do not value relationships. They are constantly annoyed by something, they want new sensations and experiences. Scandals begin, dissatisfied statements concerning any little things. As a result, the couple quarrels. But sooner or later the question arises: how to ask for forgiveness. And the first thing that comes to mind is SMS.
Instructions
Step 1
Don't become intrusive and boring. Do not call or write in the first minutes of the quarrel. Don't make things worse. This will not lead to success. If the guy himself has already made a decision, then a large number of arguments or people convincing him only spoil the matter. The guy will begin to doubt internally and may even abandon the original decision. Extend your "silence" for two or three weeks. This is so that everything will calm down, so that you both stop feeling nervous about the argument. The less you touch your partner, the sooner your romance and the negative feelings associated with it will become a past for him.
Step 2
Don't waste words or come up with sentimental stories. You shouldn't write whole memoirs in SMS and swear in love. And in general - stop convincing the guy that you are not to blame, otherwise he will really think about your serious fault. Understand, he, most likely, has already come to understand that the quarrel is insignificant and it is worth making up.
Step 3
In SMS, you need to clearly formulate your attitude to the existing problem. No reproaches or complaints. Tell us about your torment and suffering. Explain that you are sorry for the pain that was caused to him. Do not be overly sensitive to his reaction to such an act. If he is not a tormentor by nature, then he must take pity. Understand that if he really doesn't want to rebuild the relationship, then no amount of action will help. And if he wants, he will take the initiative and call.
Step 4
Control your emotions. Do not speak harshly in SMS, do not offend the guy. Try to look at the situation through the eyes of your loved one. Never write ironic or negative words. They need to be selected carefully, otherwise you will not wait for any forgiveness. Do not try to write what he needs to change in himself, in character. It is useful to change yourself. The guy himself will begin to simply admire how well you understand him. As a result, you will make up.
