Yes, it happens, and your, yesterday, the closest person in the world today has become your "former". Of course, this is very painful and it seems to you that it is simply impossible to survive. Your love for him is so strong that you cannot imagine how to live now. Everything reminds you of him, everywhere you see his voice. But stop! You understand that sooner or later you need to stop loving your former, once dear person, who has now become a stranger to you, so you need to do something for this.
Instructions
Step 1
If we recall the legends and great novels, where rejected women suffered for this until their death, then almost all of them sat locked up for the rest of their lives, pouring tears on a portrait or some part of their lover's clothes, stopping all contact with the outside world. No, this is not at all for you, which means you have to do exactly the opposite!
Step 2
If you decide to leave him yourself, since you no longer have the strength to believe his endless promises and forgive constant betrayal, then it is even easier - for this you must say to yourself a firm "Enough!" and stop all communication with him. It will be easier if you try to forget it.
Step 3
To begin with, collect everything that may remind you of him, and ruthlessly feed it to the trash can. Erase all the photos in the computer where you are together. Of course, it will not be so easy to erase memories from memory, but at least forbid yourself to sit for days, going over in your head all the happy moments where you were still together.
Step 4
Don't you have anything to do, don't you have other things to do and nowhere to be entertained? So keep yourself occupied, load to the maximum. Now you have time for yourself, beloved. Go to the gym or yoga center or visit the spa. Take a course of cosmetic procedures, after which you will feel rejuvenated, prettier and rested. You will start to like yourself, and, therefore, you will begin to attract the attention of the men around you.
Step 5
If you really want to talk it out, start keeping a diary or cry to a close friend. Women endure stress more easily because they are able to speak out and share them. A true friend will always be on your side and will always support you in your grief.
Step 6
Understand that our lives are short enough to be wasted in needless suffering or trying to re-educate another person. Do not waste time - start looking for a new object of your affection and say to your ex a mental "Thank you" for the fact that you gained life experience and now can take into account your past mistakes that you made with him.
