There is an opinion that only women love with their ears. In practice, men often do not have enough tender and affectionate words pronounced by their chosen one in time. The right words spoken in a romantic setting can break the ice and will please any man.
Instructions
Step 1
Praise your significant other often for small and big accomplishments. Every man strives to look like a hero in the eyes of his woman. Start telling him more often “you are the best”, “no one cooks barbecue like you”, “what a fine fellow you are, without you I could not have done it”, “you are my strongest” and you will see how your man will flourish before our eyes.
Step 2
Show him that only around him did you feel happy. The expressions “I am so calm with you”, “this is the first time with me”, “how long have I dreamed of someone like you” are perfect.
Step 3
Call a spade a spade. Don't be afraid to use a strong word in an intimate setting. Many men admit that it turns them on very much. Feel free to talk about sex first. Try to say for a start: "Next to you I feel like a girl", "God, how sexy you are now", "When I see you with an erection, for me the whole world stops." Believe me, your chosen one will appreciate your freedom and openness.
Step 4
Avoid all kinds of "masks", "bunnies" and other animals that girls love to reward their soul mate with, especially in public. Most men are terribly annoyed by all these affectionate, in your opinion, nicknames. And to pronounce them in society, even when in the company of close friends, is simply not decent. Better to replace them with "beloved", "dear", "dear".
Step 5
Remember to thank your man for what he does for you. The usual “thank you, dear” is fine.
Step 6
Make it clear to the chosen one that he is irreplaceable. Say: “I don’t even know what I would do if it were not for you”, “Without you I would not have thought of this, you are so smart with me”, “Without you, I would never have been able to replace a wheel on a car”. These words will not only please your man, but will also help to properly stimulate his desire to help you again.
Step 7
Watch not only what words you say to your life partner, but also how you say them. Voice timbre, intonation, gentle whispering in your ear usually matters more than what you say. You can practice in front of the mirror at home and develop your own unique way of speaking.
Step 8
Psychologists and NLP specialists distinguish three types of people according to the way they perceive information: visuals, audials, and kinesthetics. Talking to a visual male, "paint" images of him using the words: "Your strong hands and moist lips are driving me crazy." A male audial will surely appreciate your voice acting. When communicating with a male kinesthetic, use the adjectives “sensitive”, “hot”, “delicious” in your speech.
Step 9
Tell your chosen one more often how you love him. Just like that, for no reason. A daily exchange of affectionate and gentle words will help keep your feelings warm for years to come.
