Intimate relationships are an integral part of the lives of many modern couples. For some, sex becomes a way to get to know themselves and their partner better, to feel trust and become closer not only physically, but also emotionally. However, only those who are absolutely relaxed can completely relax in bed.
Necessary
- - beautiful underwear;
- - feather, puff or tassel;
- - massage oil / cream;
- - Beautiful music
Instructions
Step 1
A liberated person will be able to get maximum pleasure from intimacy. With such a girl, the partner will feel cozy and comfortable, and will try in every possible way to please her. To fully surrender to the process, you need to relax before having sex.
Step 2
Your favorite music and beautiful underwear will help you tune in the right way. Just get dressed, listen to a few tracks, meditate, or, conversely, actively move. This will help you forget about problems, throw unnecessary thoughts out of your head. If your partner knows about your excitement, you can do the "act of relaxation" together.
Step 3
Long-term foreplay can also help you relax before sex. Show your partner your erogenous zones by gently stimulating their sensitive areas. Pay special attention to the head, neck, ears and the area behind them. If you want to extend the time of sexual play, first use flirting, touching your loved one with the help of accessories: a puff, a feather or a soft brush. Gradually move into closer contact.
Step 4
Long-term tactile contact can help build trust in your partner. Have your man give you a gentle back massage. For a more pleasant touch, use oil or cream. In the region of the back, shoulder girdle, lower back, there are many nerve endings. Massaging them will respond with pleasant sensations, help you relax and tune in to intimacy. For some girls, this foreplay is very exciting. Especially if the partner, in addition to his hands, uses his lips and tongue.
Step 5
If you are just at the very beginning of a relationship and you will have sex for the first time, try to "postpone" it until the morning, and spend the night in a confidential conversation and a joint dream. Sexologists claim that spending time together will help you to emotionally bond with your partner and feel relaxed in his presence. Therefore, morning sex will be a logical and enjoyable start to a new day (and a strong relationship).
