Quite a little time passed, and the first ardor of passion, when you looked only at each other, faded away. You still feel good together, but the routine is already addictive. If you don't want your life together to become like a swamp covered with mud, you will have to make some effort.
Instructions
Step 1
Find a common hobby.
It will be interesting for you to do a common business together. This can be stamp collecting, fitness classes, playing music, or skydiving. In any case, a common hobby is an endless topic of conversation, it will give your coexistence additional interest, make you active and give a lot of positive emotions. And positive emotions unite.
Step 2
Give each other some freedom.
If you spend all the time together and don't disengage your hands, over time you will have less and less topics to talk about. Everyone should have their own separate circle of friends, it is from there that you will bring something new and interesting to the common hearth. And do not always try to make your friends common, sometimes you need to have something only of your own, secret. After all, no matter how much you love each other, you are independent, successful individuals. That is why you are interesting to each other.
Step 3
Do romantic stupid things.
Order bouquets of flowers to your home not for a joint anniversary, but just like that. Put love notes in your pocket so that your loved one will find them completely unexpectedly. Read poetry under the starry sky, and in the restaurant order "your" song and invite your partner to the slowest dance. A little bit of romantic "firewood" will only benefit your family hearth.
Step 4
Come out into the light.
Even if your nest is the most comfortable, it is worth going out somewhere so that others can see you together. Visit theaters, exhibitions, at least once a month have dinner not at home, but in a cafe or restaurant. Don't refer to the lack of money! Check out the posters for free cultural events in your city. And some exhibition "Urban life of the N-governorate in the XIX century" will become a real event and topic for discussion.
Step 5
Go on adventures together.
Buy train tickets and leave for the whole day in a neighboring city. Wander unfamiliar streets, see local sights and read plaques. Or maybe it’s better to take a tent and a sleeping bag and ride bicycles wherever you go? And drive until the night catches you …
Step 6
Surprise each other.
You know your partner as flaky; you do not expect anything sudden from him. And you are no longer a mystery to him. As the hero of the famous operetta used to say: "My wife is a read book." True, then he had to admit that he missed in this book "… the most interesting pages …". So take that boredom out of your partner. Surprise him with either an unexpected skill, or an act, or an outfit. Even if you have to make great efforts to learn to tap dance, believe me, the surprise and delight in the eyes of your loved one will pay off these efforts a hundredfold.
