The presence of the child's future father at childbirth causes heated debate, and there is no consensus on this matter both among women and among men. Ardent opponents of joint childbirth cite arguments such as, for example, the loss of sexual desire in a man. Supporters of the husband's presence at childbirth argue that, on the contrary, family childbirth strengthens the relationship in a couple and causes a man to almost adore a woman who has gone through torment and gave him a child. All these points of view have a right to exist. One thing is clear: the decision on joint childbirth should be voluntary both on the part of the wife and on the part of the husband - to persuade or coerce someone in such a delicate matter is senseless and even harmful. Well, if the decision on the presence of the child's father at childbirth is made, then the woman needs to carry out some preparation of her beloved so that he clearly understands his mission in the hospital.
Instructions
Step 1
The main thing that a man should understand is that he did not come to the play and not to the show. He came to help, as well as morally support the mother of his child, and he does not even have to observe directly the entire process of childbirth, but it is enough just to be around, hold his wife's hand, assess her condition and be a link between the woman in labor and the medical staff. Next to a helpless and completely inadequate wife, who has contractions, water flows, etc. etc., he must remain completely calm and "sober" head.
Step 2
A man needs to at least briefly study the medical literature in order to represent all stages of the birth process. You can watch the instructional video in advance. It is very good if you can communicate with friends who have already gone through a similar test. Knowing all the features and nuances, a man will not rush about in hysterics around the maternity ward and call doctors every minute, but will be able to calmly control the situation and make the right decisions.
Step 3
You need to think about how a man can help a woman during labor. Back massage helps many women in labor to relieve suffering, so the husband should learn about massage techniques in advance. A man can help his wife get up and sit down, walk down the hallway, regulate breathing. Some women feel relieved if they hang with their arms around a man's neck and relax. There are many options, it is worth trying everything that will make the contractions easier. In any case, the presence of a loved one next to her will give the expectant mother the confidence and tranquility that she needs so much in this difficult period.
