"Money is not happiness", "To live not with wealth, but with a person." These proverbs characterize family life well. Of course, material well-being is very important, but still, the moral factor should be in the first place, because even a wealthy family cannot be considered happy if there is no love, understanding, warmth in it. How can the moral climate in the family be improved?
Instructions
Step 1
Alas, often spouses, even those who love each other, cannot find a common language, resort to reproaches, scandals. As a result, the case may come to a divorce. Don't try to remake your partner! Try to see advantages in it, not disadvantages.
Step 2
In the pre-wedding period of courtship, future spouses look at each other through "rose-colored glasses". This is understandable and natural. The shortcomings of the future life partner are either not noticed, or they are treated condescendingly: they say, after the wedding, we will re-educate! When family everyday life begins, young spouses gradually realize that the partner is not at all a sinless angel, and all attempts at re-education cause the opposite effect. And some young couples break up without even living together for a year.
Step 3
Remember that you are married to a mature adult who has his own tastes, habits, and attitudes. He is not a little child to re-educate him. Do not impose your own tastes and habits on him. Try to be more tolerant of its shortcomings, see its advantages first. Avoid conflict situations, always look for a reasonable compromise. Compliance with such simple rules will immediately improve the moral climate in the family.
Step 4
More kind words, praise, less reproaches and claims. "A kind word and the cat is pleased." Many have probably heard this phrase, but not all use kind words when communicating with the closest people. And in vain! After all, a dissatisfied, irritable tone, reproaches and claims (even fair ones) in 99% of people cause an instinctive response. Even if a person himself understands that he is guilty, did not act in the best way, he will look for excuses for himself or come up with counter-reproaches, accusations. This will only hurt the moral climate in the family.
Step 5
Try to praise your partner more often, to compliment him (for sure, there is something for that). Emphasize that you appreciate his care for the family and his help around the house. And if you have well-founded claims, express them tactfully, without resorting to an accusatory tone, causticity, especially insults.
Step 6
Do not let everyday life get stuck. Often the moral climate in families deteriorates due to monotony, boredom, when life is limited to the framework of the house. Even if you really love your family nest, do not sit within four walls forever. Visit museums, concerts, exhibitions, go on tourist trips whenever possible. The family will only benefit from new experiences.
