If you have ever tried to meet a girl on a dating site, then you were faced with the question of how to get her attention and, possibly, fall in love with you by correspondence, so that the relationship would continue beyond the site. According to statistics, 95% of users of dating sites fail already at the stage of correspondence.
Instructions
Step 1
Most importantly, do not rush to confess your love in the second, let alone the first letter. You will need time to get to know the person well and appreciate his inner qualities, for which you can fall in love with the girl. It is unlikely that she will believe in the seriousness of your words about ardent love only from the photo. The beginning of a correspondence is like the first date.
Step 2
It is not necessary to answer the girl's letter this minute after receiving it. Allow yourself to think about the answer for several hours, or even days, so as not to look like a loser hungry for female attention in the eyes of the girl.
Step 3
Don't complain about life's problems. Show yourself an interesting and fun conversationalist with whom you can talk about any topic. Make her laugh. This is the surest way to a girl's heart, but a vulgar joke can ruin the impression of you. Show that you can be gallant and charming. Enjoy communication.
Step 4
Write the truth about your age and career, about the place and conditions of residence, as well as how you look, so that when you meet, the deception is not revealed. If you lied about one thing, then you are unlikely to be able to convince the girl of the sincerity of feelings. For simple flirting, there are chats, but to try to build relationships, you need to correctly and competently select topics for conversation that would coincide with her interests.
Step 5
Depending on how the girl relates to you, to the prospect of a date, in particular? with you, invite her, but no later than a week after the start of the correspondence.
