The concepts of love and falling in love have received millions of definitions - scientific, from the point of view of biology and even physics, chemistry, and philosophical. In every family, from generation to generation, the secrets of preserving feelings and how to fall in love with yourself forever the object of your desire are passed on.
Any person, be it a woman or a man, at least once in his life dreamed of becoming forever the most beloved and necessary in life for someone. It is very difficult for a partner to be the ideal and the meaning of life. It may take a long time for someone who you like to just pay attention to you. And it is even more difficult to hold your gaze and show that you are the person with whom you need to connect fate forever. Many make the most ridiculous mistakes in the development of relationships, breaking the first, most fragile threads, pushing away from themselves a loved one.
Bring joy
The first and main mistake is to draw attention to yourself with the help of certain problems, for example, "help", "tell me" or "teach". In no case should you do this at the initial stage! From the very first days of acquaintance, you risk becoming a source of trouble, and not always pleasant. It is better to try to find out as much as possible about the hobbies and interests of the subject of your passion, so that common topics of conversation are found, communication with you becomes pleasant and useful. Your new acquaintance is passionate about football (basketball, snowboarding, biathlon, etc.) - master the basics of this sport, read the literature on this topic, check out the results of recent competitions. Is the girl of your dreams interested in astronomy or floristry? Learn at least the names of the largest constellations, visit floriculture courses. Believe me, a man with knowledge of botany and a girl who knows the rating of football teams is so unusual that it will definitely attract the attention of the opposite sex.
Do not press
First date - a dream come true and he (she) is mine (mine). Almost all lovers make this mistake. After the first romantic dinner, you should never ask for a visit and throw tantrums due to the lack of calls and attention. Becoming an aggressor and dictator from the first days of a relationship means pushing your partner away, causing negativity.
Become a friend and be interesting to your partner
Any relationship is, first of all, a partnership, and it presupposes trust and friendship. Try to make it so that these feelings become the basis of your relationship. Another common mistake that leads to a breakdown in relationships and a cooling of feelings is a refusal to develop, renew oneself, especially for women, unfortunately. Having got the coveted ring on their finger and a stamp in the passport, they move into a cozy robe and use only curlers as decoration. Constant renewal of the image, variety in sexual life and a smile are the guarantee of long-term relationships and love forever.
