Married men, especially after several years of marriage or at the time of a family crisis, often have mistresses. This allows them to distract from their own problems, to understand that they are interesting and desirable. But such hobbies rarely end with a new wedding. To bind an unfree man forever, you will have to try.
It is very common for married men to have an affair just for fun. They like to experience new emotions, they want variety. At the same time, they are strongly attached to their family and are not at all going to leave their wife. But there are times when adultery becomes the beginning of a new strong love. In order to understand whether it makes sense to fight for a man, or if there is nothing to expect from him except for outbursts of passion, you need to observe his behavior.
If a man wants to communicate with a woman, he likes her, he is ready to date, then he in every possible way lets know about himself. He calls, sends SMS not only when he wants sex with his mistress. But also just to find out how you are doing. He shows concern, seeks to help, is interested in the problems of his girlfriend. He wants to know how and what she lives, gets to know her friends and relatives. He takes responsibility for the woman. This behavior shows that a man is experiencing not just passion, which quickly passes, but stronger feelings. This means that you can fight for his love.
If a lover appears only when it is convenient for him, does not delve into the life of a new partner, is not interested in her affairs, does not help, this means only one thing. He is not going to build any long-term relationship with her, he does not care how she feels and what difficulties she has. In this case, if the goal is to create a family, and not just have periodic sex with an indifferent person, it is better to break off the relationship.
When it comes to the first case, then it is quite possible to count on the creation of a new family. In order for a man to make a decision about a new marriage, a woman must behave correctly. But in each case, the behavior is chosen based on the observation of a man. To marry a lover, you need to be very careful. He'll have to notice what he likes in a woman and what he doesn't. If he wants home comfort and warmth, he will have to become affectionate and tender, learn how to cook deliciously and stop arguing about every occasion. It is necessary to let the man understand that his role is dominant. That he is responsible for the happiness of a woman. And happiness in this case is an official marriage.
Men love well-groomed women. Everyone has their own concept of beauty, but gloss and elegance attract the majority. Therefore, you need to monitor your appearance, be always on top - not only on dates, but also at home.
In the event that a man is tired of his wife, a housewife, he may want to see opposite qualities in a new partner - purposefulness, independence, activity. To get such a man as a husband, you need to become a self-sufficient woman. That is, to show in every possible way that a relationship with a lover, although important, is far from in the first place. Sometimes you need to “forget” about dates, disappear for a while, not answer calls. Agree to meetings only when it's convenient. Do not adjust to the man. But at the same time, during dates, you need to be gentle and passionate, otherwise a married man will quickly lose interest in a completely inaccessible goal.
It is better not to start a relationship with a man who has small children. For him, meeting with his mistress is a way to find temporary peace of mind. He's not looking for a new marriage, just trying to keep the old one in such a weird way.
You can talk about marriage with a married man after about six months of constant meetings. This time is enough for the most indecisive lover to determine his feelings. Yes, and a woman will have enough six months to understand whether she has real love, or just passion and desire to possess inaccessible. But in no case should you put pressure on a man. You need to start with a frank conversation about the future of the couple. Most likely, the man will not immediately agree to a divorce. But this is not the main purpose of the conversation. The main thing is to convey to the partner the true desires of the woman. After that, he needs to be given time to think. Men are often very unsure of themselves, it is easier for them to stay with an unloved wife than to go to a new woman. To make it easier for a lover to decide, you need to create the appearance of a family. Show more attention and care, become a little more persistent. If a man really loves, if he is sure that he will be no worse in the new family than in the old one, he will most likely make a decision to leave.
