Love? Attachment? Sympathy? All the answers are in your heart, which can only be understood by you. We often do not approach the choice of a partner deliberately, and when we analyze, we are disappointed in a person. This happens because you do not need to make hasty conclusions, but first understand your feelings for a person.
Instructions
Step 1
Answer a few questions for yourself, be honest, otherwise this test will not be useful. What attracts you to your soulmate? If an appearance, a slender figure, a cute face is a hobby. Only interest in a person can speak of deeper feelings. Naturally, appearance should not be in last place, as well as physical attraction, but if the spiritual inner world of your partner is not important to you, there can be no talk of love.
Step 2
How did the relationship start? Love does not arise instantly, and there are exceptions, but this is one case in a thousand. We met, a spark flashed, time passed, it faded away, that's all the development of most of these scenarios, testifying only to passion. To truly fall in love, it takes some time, at least to get to know a person better.
Step 3
What is your attitude towards others? When we are carried away by someone, the world around us does not seem to exist, only your passion is in front of our eyes, and love implies that the person you have chosen is naturally more important than everyone else, but there are still friends, relatives, and work in life.
Step 4
You can understand your feelings by thinking about the anticipated future. If you want to be made a happy person, if in the first place from the relationship you are looking for benefits for yourself, then such a relationship is nothing more than a hobby. True love has always been, is and will be disinterested. The desire to give all of oneself to a loved one, without demanding anything in return, can testify to love. Selfishness and love are incompatible things.
