When meeting each other, young people sometimes wonder how long their feelings will last. Sincere love often accompanies people for the rest of their lives, but ordinary affection and sympathy ends sooner or later.
Instructions
Step 1
To understand whether your feelings are forever or not, first you need to learn to separate concepts such as "love" and "being in love." In the most general sense, love is the desire to make another person happy. A loving guy or girl will do everything so that the object of his sighing is happy next to him. To learn to love, you need to know the tastes, preferences, desires and aspirations of your chosen one. To do this, spend more time with each other, share your experiences, make plans for the future. This will help you get to know your significant other better. Sometimes from someone you can hear the phrase: "I love him because he is smart." No matter how strange it sounds, you love a person not for something, but in spite of everything. A loving person cannot give an exact answer to the question of what exactly he feels for his chosen one. He loves absolutely everything in him: appearance, physique and even character flaws.
Step 2
Learn to talk to your partner. Share all your experiences. And even if something does not suit you, you need to talk about it in a calm tone. It is equally important to learn to listen and hear a person. Laugh when you are happy, cry when you are sad. Remember, sincerity is important in any relationship. Any relationship sometimes has some difficulties. This is usually associated with the beginning of life together, the birth of a child. Of course, time, one way or another, changes people. The main thing during this period is not to lose yourself. After going through all the difficulties and maintaining your relationship, you will become a real team.
Step 3
Falling in love lies in a completely different attitude towards a person. Next to him, you feel elated, you want to constantly spend time together, but at the same time you have only one desire: all your undertakings, manifestations of care and affection should be exclusively mutual. If there is no reciprocity, breakdown, experiences, suffering and attempts to replace a person who does not need you with someone else who will appreciate you and your care more begins. Falling in love quickly lights up and passes quickly, so such feelings cannot be eternal.
Step 4
If you understand that you are ready to do everything for a person free of charge, you worry about whether he is full, whether he is dressed, whether he is healthy, and it does not matter to you at all whether he is next to you or not, you just worry about his well-being, you are interested in him feelings and are even ready to let go to another person, if only he was happy, this is sincere and most real love that does not pass over time. Yes, if you are not with the subject of your adoration, you can start dating someone in the future, but you can hardly love someone. Your thoughts will always return to the same representative of the opposite sex, but only at the thought that he is alive, healthy, and everything is fine with him, you will be calm.
