Of course, men and women are clearly from different planets, a lot has been said about this. And yet, we interact every day and every hour, and women just need to learn to find a common language with a man in order to build harmonious relationships in personal and everyday life.
Instructions
Step 1
Get interested. Be interested in football, politics, world news, be interested in popular on the net and computer programs. Men respect and secretly admire women with whom they have something to talk about. Knowing at least famous football players and a few rules of football will add a few points to the lady in the eyes of men at once.
Step 2
Share their passions. Learn to appreciate beer, for example. Do not love? Fall in love with extreme sports. Are you afraid? Master a couple of computer programs. Shared topics will come along with shared hobbies, and men will at least be your buddies.
Step 3
Ask for help. Despite the previous advice, a woman should remain a woman. You can know all hockey players, watch boxing matches and know all sorts of beer, no one has canceled women's tricks. An extra reason for contacting will be a small problem - with a computer or other equipment, as well as minor help around the house. It is pleasant for men to feel like protectors and saviors, so a small service will not burden them and even give them pleasure. But do not overdo it - too obvious or frequent requests will strain and may alienate a man.
Step 4
Be silent. Men appreciate women who can listen. No matter how much you want to correct or tell about something of your own, be able to listen. It can be a conversation about work, hobbies, or just philosophical reflections - it is important that a man has an attentive listener to whom he can tell about everything. In addition, representatives of the stronger sex love to feel like enlighteners, bring light and boast of knowledge in different areas. Never interrupt, even if you know more or are competent. Then, with time, you will figure it out. Listen with interest, sparkle in your eyes and you will be rewarded - at least sympathy and respect will be provided.
