Different generations - different views on life. Older people have always believed that they are wise in life and therefore smarter, better able to find a way out of the situation. They know better how to solve problems, they try to constantly guide their child on the right path. A small child takes this for granted, and an older child takes it as pressure and an encroachment on privacy.
Instructions
Step 1
Growing up, any person expects parental support in any endeavors. When this does not happen, surprise appears. The child stops sharing his problems and doubts, begins to hide and under-speak, realizing that the parents may not like something, and they will insist on their point of view. In such cases, constant omissions lead to family quarrels, this can be avoided with the help of serious conversation. It's time to explain to parents that their child is no longer at all small, that it has its own established opinion. And he needs independence for his future life. After all, parents will not be able to decide until the retirement of their child what is best for him and how to act in a certain situation.
Step 2
Sometimes a doubt creeps in as to whether it is worth looking for a common language with parents if they do not take the first step towards a meeting. They think that the child knows little about life. We need to dissuade them from this. If you want mom and dad to become friends and support you in every possible way, you need to strive to improve relations. Take the first step on your own, go to reconciliation, devote more time to helping around the house, ask for support from parents, ask for advice and discuss your point of view. Do not throw tantrums and slam the door, this can be attributed to a transitional age or explosive nature. Parents will not think about how painful and unpleasant the child is because they do not perceive him as a person.
Step 3
It is impossible to completely eradicate misunderstandings and conflicts. The opinions of children and parents will sometimes differ anyway, this is the reality. But it is quite possible to smooth the corners with ordinary dialogue. It is worth showing more interest in the life of parents, finding out how things are at work, what's new with family friends. Why not ask them how the day went in the evening, when parents come home from work? Genuine interest leads to mutual understanding between the parties. Conflicts can arise against the background of friends. Perhaps the parents do not like someone from the inner circle of their child. In such cases, you need to better acquaint your friends with their parents, then they will understand that in fact friends do not have a bad influence. Telling your parents something good about a close friend's family will always help change attitudes for the better.
