Family life is not so simple and cloudless as it seems to a lover who is in a candy-bouquet period. After living together for a year or two, people sometimes part. At the same time, the parties often do not understand what was the reason, and, of course, blame each other. But it is not so difficult to avoid a sad end.
Instructions
Step 1
Be patient. If you firmly decided to link your fate with a girl, then you will have to remember your whole life together: she is the person whose love you need to keep in your heart, going through quarrels, resentments, mutual reproaches and misunderstandings. Only in this way, after years, one can understand that the feelings have not gone anywhere, they just became calm, warm, homely. Unfortunately, many couples do not pass the test of time. And this is due to the lack of such a quality as patience. Often men do not have such a character trait. When grievances against your wife accumulate, do not make a scandal. And invite her to talk, peacefully discuss your common problems and try to find compromises on all issues.
Step 2
If life with your wife is not going well, do not seek solace on the side. Many men create the illusion of happiness by being torn between family and lover. But for those who are serious about family problems, this state of affairs does not bring joy. On the contrary, sooner or later it becomes necessary to part with one of the women. Moreover, it often happens that you don't want to throw your soul mate. After all, there is no guarantee that complete harmony will reign in a new marriage. Indeed, a grinding-in period will also begin in it, and it is possible that mutual understanding will disappear. This means that you do not need to rush to change your wife, you need to correct your own view of relationships.
Step 3
Find an approach to your significant other. Understand that sometimes your spouse's irritability and dissatisfaction is caused by elementary fatigue. After all, household chores are not romantic meetings. A woman creates comfort in the house, takes care of you, which is a lot of work. And, of course, if you show a desire to help her in something, you will thereby show your love. You may have to overpower yourself, overcome your own laziness, but believe me, family happiness is worth it.
Step 4
Make concessions. When a quarrel arose from some trifle, sometimes important only for a woman, show nobility. Remember that you are a representative of the strong half of humanity, and give in. The sad outcome in the form of a divorce should have a right to exist only in the most extreme case: if you finally and irrevocably come to the conclusion that your wife is already an unloved stranger to you.
