It so happens that in the same family, children are not alike. And not only outwardly. They often vary greatly in character. What needs to be done to find a common language with your brother?
Instructions
Step 1
You should never sneak and complain about your brother to your parents. Learn to resolve conflicts on your own, without adult intervention. Then you will begin to trust each other more and find a common language faster.
Step 2
Do not try to turn any quarrel into a hysteria. If your brother took your phone, do not shout, but explain to him that this is your personal item. Conduct a conversation, patiently making it clear how indecent it is to violate the personal space of even a close relative.
Step 3
Divide your zones. This territory is yours, and that is your brother. But don't get too absurd. If your brother asks you for headphones or a ruler for a while, share with him.
Step 4
Try to be more honest. Tell him about your experiences, ask for advice. This is especially true of your relationship with a young man. Brothers often only pretend to make fun of your first crush. In fact, they really care about you. Therefore, if someone has offended you, tell your brother about it. He will definitely protect you.
Step 5
But young people are not always willing to tell their sisters about their relationships with girls. Therefore, if you see that your brother does not intend to share his experiences with you, you should not pester him with questions. Better to subtly offer your services in choosing a gift or choosing flowers for his girlfriend. For this he will definitely thank you.
Step 6
Don't get hysterical about the new laptop he received as a gift from his parents. Most likely, he really needs this thing more. Over time, you will receive the thing you need, because your parents care about you equally.
Step 7
If your brother has a calm personality and likes to be alone most of the time, don't be too annoying. Only break his loneliness when you really need his help. Distracting him will only make him angry. And in the event that his help is really needed, he will refuse to help you.
Step 8
Ask your brother for advice more often. It will flatter him. After all, he is a man and understands more in life than you do. So you will be able to establish contact with your brother and find a common language with him. And in the future, your relationship will become warm and will last for life.
