There is an opinion that friendship between different sexes is just childish naivety, that young girls believe in this friendship, believe with all their hearts, and guys just agree with this, trying to maintain friendly relations. With age, many people lose this naivety and many argue that this friendship does not and cannot be. And if it can be, then only in individual cases.
You can believe that the guy himself will take and offer the girl not a hand and a heart, but just friendship, but this only happens in fairy tales and dreams. The only exception can be the fact if the girl does not cause any feelings in him. Then, out of a sense of solidarity, a man cannot refuse her friendship. Men, first of all, want to communicate with those women who excite their hot blood. Friendship with such ardent hunters for women's hearts is a huge risk, because they may have different ideas about the pure and carefree friendship that women actually expect from them. They always want intimacy with the fair female sex, combining this with talking over a cup of tea, walking in the park, so they can insist on friendly sex, without feelings and obligations. A guy may like a girl, so it will be difficult for him to restrain himself and remain indifferent while his instinct will order him to take possession of his girlfriend. But after all, friendship was not started for this, so you need to immediately put all the points in these relations. Try to draw the line between friendship with a person and sexual relations, because available sex is everywhere and everywhere, and real friendship, in which you can open your soul, is so rare and irreplaceable. This must be understood by the intended friend.
Equality in friendship
You can't bully a man. With such a frightened gray bunny, you just won't be interested. It will not be interesting to waste precious time, it will not be interesting to share about the thrill in the soul and snuggle up to a strong shoulder. After all, why, if not for these purposes, is male friendship needed? You just need to be on an equal footing.
And do not obey any of his wishes. He shouldn't feel like he is central to your friendship.
Friendship without sex
Many men argue that there can be no such friendship, but a woman does not need many. There are enough men who do not hesitate to say that they really have a girlfriend with whom they communicate perfectly and freely, are ready to come in a difficult moment and give the last they have, without asking for anything in return except a gorgeous smile and words of gratitude. And they don't need any sex. Not because the girlfriends are deprived of charm, but because they are interested in spending time together, sharing joy and sadness, but they just feel so good and comfortable together that they don't want to spoil it all with banal sex.
If something more than friendship appears between a guy and a girl, and then it stops, they will have to say goodbye, since they are unlikely to be able to make friends after that.
Sincerity of feelings
To befriend men, you must remember that friendships must be sincere and selfless. Relationships should be so light and relaxed so that interest in each other does not disappear, there was always a desire in difficult times to come to him, share everything intimate and just enjoy life, without resorting to intimate relationships, where friendship ends. For this, it is necessary not only to be a beautiful and sophisticated woman, but also to develop as a person. Learn to listen and hear. Respect, not be afraid to expose their female shoulder to a man, because they also want to sometimes cry and express their feelings. Be sincere, without thoughts and motives, and love with your heart in a friendly way.
