Usually, after parting, former lovers or spouses practically stop communicating: they begin to spend time in various companies, visit other bars and try not to intersect at random on the street. However, it is not easy to avoid the company of the former if you work for the same company.
Instructions
Step 1
Whatever the end of your relationship, try to remain, if not friends, then at least buddies. Both you and your ex-boyfriend should understand that without this, working together will be extremely difficult. For the first time, you can limit your communication exclusively to work issues. Everyone can spend lunches, tea drinking and smoke breaks in their own company.
Step 2
Do not discuss the fact of your separation from colleagues, or its reasons. All your words can reach your former lover, and he is unlikely to be happy that he has become the main character of gossip walking around the office. This will not help you maintain a comfortable work atmosphere, and the revenge of an offended man can be scary.
Step 3
After parting, people often experience far from positive emotions towards each other. If the ex wants to take revenge on you, substituting before the authorities, you must be fully armed. Just do your job perfectly, and you are unlikely to be in danger. If you have the opportunity to point out to your boss about the ex-boyfriend's "joint", try to restrain your impulse. Such hostile attitudes will be very detrimental to your work together.
Step 4
Try not to react to gossip, questions and jokes yourself, which will certainly be if at least a few colleagues at work knew about your connection. If you have a new partner, do not rush to tell everyone present in the office about it - this can provoke a negative reaction from the ex.
Step 5
Don't start new romances at work in order to annoy your ex. And in general, try to refrain from starting to meet with another colleague in the future. First, it will negatively affect your reputation. And secondly, sometimes it is hard to work with one ex, but what will you do if there are several of them?
