Good friendships after romance ends are rare and fortunate in the world of human communication. Unfortunately, most couples break up due to mutual stubbornness, unwillingness or inability to give in. Mutual grievances are not forgiven and are not forgotten even after a long period of time after the breakup, so it can be extremely difficult to part with friends.
Instructions
Step 1
If you are the initiator of a breakup with a young man, at the time of separation, do not talk about the reasons and your motives. Especially if it is the beloved's shortcomings. Most likely, subconsciously, you both understand these reasons, even if you do not want to admit. Just cut the connection.
Step 2
You both need to spend some time in solitude and not think about each other at all. Even if one of you finds new love, the other should be happy at best. Or, at the very least, not be jealous or envious.
Step 3
Distract yourself for a while with something pleasant that will at least give the illusion of happiness. You will understand that life goes on, no one has ruined it for anyone, and no one is to blame for anything.
Step 4
After a break that can last from a month to several years, meet again. Tell each other about your professional and personal achievements. Rejoice sincerely for each other.