Not a single loving couple is immune from cooling of feelings. It happens that one of the partners becomes clear: it's time to end the novel. And here it is necessary to make every effort to part with dignity, without mutual reproaches, stormy scenes and accusations. The ideal option is when, after parting, former lovers maintain good, friendly relations.
Instructions
Step 1
The initiator of the conversation that it would be better to remain friends can be either a man or a woman, this is not fundamental. Which of the lovers has great diplomatic abilities, is more eloquent, as they say, and cards in hand. During a conversation, in every possible way refrain from reproaches, accusations, claims, even in the most veiled, tactful form. On the contrary, nobly take all the blame for the resulting cooling on yourself. Pay tribute to your partner, tell him that you were very good with him, that you will forever retain gratitude and the best memories.
Step 2
Be sure to assure that you will be ready at any time to come to the rescue, to provide all possible support. Of course, without demanding anything in return.
Step 3
Suppose, by agreement with your partner, you took a kind of time-out, that is, you stopped close relations for a while in order to think it over and decide again. Then behave reasonably and with restraint. You should not tell relatives, friends, colleagues about your cooling, all the more, complain, accuse the other side of the breakup, say nasty things. Remember that the earth is full of rumors, and this information will very quickly reach your former half. Whether it will be possible to maintain friendly relations after that is a purely rhetorical question.
Step 4
In the event that, after a time-out, parting still happened, try not to remind yourself of yourself for at least two or three weeks. After all, your partner needs to simply calm down, drive away emotions, get used to the idea that the romance really ended. And only then call or try to meet under a plausible pretext, take an interest in business, ask if your help or advice is needed.
Step 5
With this tactic, your relationship may well remain friendly. And who knows, maybe over time you will realize that you made a mistake and want to start your romance again.
