Congratulating a guy's mom is always exciting, because, perhaps, in the future she will become your mother-in-law. How many stories have been written about the confrontation between the daughter-in-law and the husband's mother, you cannot count. Begin to form a positive opinion of yourself as a daughter-in-law and friend of your son, from the moment you first meet your future mother-in-law. How to congratulate your boyfriend's mom?
Instructions
Step 1
If you are familiar with the guy's mom in absentia, find out from your beloved her interests, hobbies and preferences in spending leisure time. For a business woman, a ticket to a concert or to the theater is a good gift. A practical housewife will love the necessary thing in the house. In the early stages of a relationship, it is preferable to give neutral things, since, not knowing the taste of a person, you can find yourself in an awkward situation. In the future, when you get to know each other better, you yourself will be able to find out her desires in conversations.
Step 2
Treat the young man's mother, first of all, as a woman. A beautiful bouquet or blooming violets in a pot can be a great gift. It is important to play up the gift, accompany the gift with pleasant words, so that the woman does not conjecture the meaning of the gift herself.
Step 3
If the guy's mom appreciates the warmth of the hearth, and you cook well, bake a beautiful cake for her. But do not ask her to evaluate your culinary abilities, it is better to present the gift as a sign of reverence and respect for the master's and maternal merits of the woman.
Step 4
If you are invited to a family celebration, prepare a toast and congratulations in advance. If there are no words, write down poems on the card and read them to the boyfriend's mom. Even if the relationship is tense, you always have something to thank this woman for.
Step 5
If a big celebration in the house of the future mother-in-law is not planned, you can arrange cute family gatherings. Set the table with the young man, prepare a festive dinner, decorate the kitchen and corridor with flowers, balloons or hearts. The most important thing here is your sincere concern, respect and respect for the person who is older than you. Express your gratitude to the boyfriend's mom for a good son, admire the qualities of a woman. There is something in any person that can be appreciated. Do it sincerely.
Step 6
If you have never seen the boyfriend's mom, but you know that she is having a holiday, send congratulations through her son. Attention in this case will not go unnoticed. With a little closer acquaintance, congratulate the young man's mom on the phone. You can read a poem or say something kind and pleasant. A call is much better than silence or ignorance about the holiday. Be attentive to your boyfriend's mom's birthday.
