A good sense of humor is a trait that men want and that girls want to see in them. Guys should understand that a joke, even in their opinion quite harmless and funny, can offend or offend a representative of the fair sex.
How to joke with girls correctly
Before you start joking, you need to study the character of the girl, find out what she loves and what she treats negatively. Indeed, among women there are persons who like parodies of interesting manners of people, and someone considers this a bad attitude and disrespect for these people.
It is very good when personal jokes are created between a guy and a girl, the meaning of which is clear only to them. Find any positive moment from your life together and come up with a joke that you can remember more than once.
You can also poke fun at the positive qualities of your girlfriend and avoid ridiculing her flaws, it is better to just hint about them than to exacerbate the situation with a joke. The main thing is to look into her eyes and smile, all this will show the friendly nature of your jokes.
The ability to pick a joke is as great as the ability to pick up a compliment. After all, girls are interested in guys who can cheer. The main thing in such a business is the ability to improvise. Prepared jokes are also welcome, but first try them on your friends, so as not to fail in front of the lady.
How you can't joke with girls
Everything here is not as simple as it seems. If for a guy some kind of joke seems funny, it is not a fact that the girl will laugh at her too. It depends on the perception of jokes among guys and girls, which is fundamentally different, and on the events during which the joke was said and on what exactly she was making fun of.
Don't joke about sex or sex. Guys who joke with a girl about sex, unless they are having sex with her, are considered preoccupied. Also, do not joke during sex, as the weaker sex's susceptibility to humor at these moments changes.
If your jokes contain any sarcastic, derisive, or malicious notes, this will indicate your dissatisfaction with the girl or her company.
Don't make fun of a woman's appearance. Even if there is at least some flaw on her body, this should not be done. There is no need to joke about her makeup, because the girls are trying to do everything to look even more attractive.
Don't make fun of her ex-boyfriends, even if you don't like him too much. The girl on a subconscious level will protect him, and you can quarrel over this.
Be careful about your jokes when your girlfriend is pregnant. Her psyche has changed a lot, and you must take this into account. Death is like making fun of a girl’s pregnancy.
