The wedding night is a pleasant but exciting experience. Compliance with easy rules will make this night unforgettable and will deprive you of any unpleasant sensations.
The wedding night is not a cause for excitement
Try to relax before an exciting event. Left alone with your husband, drink some wine or champagne, eat a light snack. Alcohol can help you relax, but don't overuse it or it will backfire. Chocolate and seafood are natural aphrodisiacs that increase arousal. Purchase assorted chocolates, order sushi or seafood salad - aphrodisiacs will also help you relax and unwind. To create a romantic atmosphere, light scented candles, turn on quiet music, you can take a bath together. Ask your husband not to rush, let him wait until the moment when you are ready. If you are very worried, discuss this with your future husband before the wedding. Tell him about your fears, ask questions of interest. A loving husband will calm you down and tell you what you need to do.
It is better to spend your wedding night in a romantic setting, for example, in a hotel room, where champagne and snacks can be brought to you.
Give your husband a comfortable position
There are several positions in which defloration is most painless. The most popular pose is the classic missionary position. Here you can relax and give the initiative to your husband. Control his actions, and defloration will be easy enough. For more relaxation, place a pillow under your buttocks and pull your bent legs towards your chest. Another good pose suitable for a virgin is the man behind. Lie on your stomach on the bed with your feet flat on the floor. Let your husband put his hands on the bed and enter you while standing. In this position, the hymen is stretched, and tearing is easy. During sex it is better not to experiment, riding positions, sitting and standing are not for you yet. If pain or bleeding occurs during sex, it is best to stop contact. Blood is produced in most cases, but sometimes it may not be there. With severe bleeding, you need to refrain from sexual intercourse for several days.
If the bleeding persists for more than 3 days, you should see a doctor.
How to behave after sex
After sexual intercourse, you may be tired or, conversely, feel anxious. But do not forget to pay attention to your husband. He was as worried as you are that something would go wrong. Thank him for his concern, give free rein to kisses and hugs. You can take a shower together. Be sure to tell what you liked about your husband's actions, and only then you can give some criticism. Mark what you would like next time.
