Basically, all brides think about the wedding: the dress, the ceremonial hall, the toastmaster and other moments of this day are worked out to the smallest detail. But some forget about another important question - what to do on the wedding night? When husband and wife are left alone in their new official status.
It is necessary
- - rose petals;
- - aroma candles;
- - silk bed linen;
- - beautiful underwear.
Instructions
Step 1
Don't come back home, make this night unforgettable. Book in advance a room in a good hotel, with a large bed and a beautiful view from the window. It is best to choose a bridal suite. This will help you to get rid of pressing problems, relax and enjoy your wedding night.
Step 2
If you do not have the opportunity or desire to spend the wedding night at the hotel, you can go home. But make sure that no one is at home, just you and your spouse. To create a romantic setting, you need to take care of auxiliary items in advance. Rose petals on the bed, scented candles around, dim lights and silk bedding. You can prepare light snacks and cream to use during foreplay.
Step 3
It is advisable for a girl to purchase beautiful underwear, a negligee in order to impress her spouse. Makeup after a long day can get spoiled and rice can get stuck in your hair, so it's worth going to the bathroom and tidying up. Do not take off the wedding dress yourself, let your husband do it.
Step 4
When you get rid of the uncomfortable dress, you can move on to the main thing. There is no need to rush, because you have the whole night ahead. Play romantic music in the background to create the right atmosphere. Tune in to the mood you want with a bubble bath. After it, you can give each other a relaxing massage, smoothly turning into foreplay.
Step 5
If on your wedding night you will be close for the first time, you must carefully defloration. To avoid staining the bedding with blood, place a double-folded towel under you. Don't worry and try to relax so that the process is not so painful. There are two positions that will allow you to do this quickly and without unnecessary pain.
First, you lie on your back with a small pillow under your buttocks, your knees bent and pulled up to your chest. In this position, the hymen is stretched and quickly torn, due to which the pain is of a short-term nature.
For the second pose, you need to lie across the bed and lower your feet to the floor. Your spouse takes a position between the thighs and enters from that position. The defloration process is quick and you will not feel much pain.
Step 6
After that, it is recommended to wait with sex until the wound heals a little. So you can end the wedding night with kisses and mutual caresses. If you don't want to go to bed after that, think in advance what to do on your wedding night later.
