Difficulties and adversities are the reality that people face in their life path. Often, people around get the false impression that some lucky people are always lucky. In fact, as a rule, whiners and pessimists who only complain about the vicissitudes of fate are unlucky. In contrast, optimists face troubles, calmly analyze the situation and overcome obstacles. To ensure that your child is always lucky, try to teach him to enjoy life.
Instructions
Step 1
It is much easier for optimists to live in this world, they cope with difficulties more easily and solve complex problems. To teach your child to enjoy life, always try to notice and emphasize everything good near you: bright sun, beautiful flowers, green grass, birdsong, frosty patterns on glass, etc. Try to find positive things around you in bad weather and bad days.
Step 2
From an early age, teach your baby independence to the best of his ability. If the little one wants to do something on his own, let him at least try it. Eating with a spoon, putting on sandals, watering flowers, etc. it's never too early. The child still cannot do it on his own, he starts to get nervous - just come to the rescue in time, calm down, help to find the mistake. Take all his children's affairs and problems seriously, trying to understand and support the baby. It is very important for a little person to know that loving parents are also his best friends, to whom he can turn for advice and help at any time.
Step 3
Praise your baby not only for the result itself, but also for the efforts made. But the praise should be real, only for real achievements. This approach will help the baby understand that in order to achieve the goal, you need to work hard.
Step 4
Don't take your frustration out on your child if you're in a bad mood. Minimize all negative manifestations: heightened or commanding tone, value judgments and comparisons with other children. Teach your toddler not to focus on negative experiences. Discuss all difficult situations with him, trying to figure out why this or that event happened, how you can avoid or prevent its recurrence.
Step 5
Teach your baby to get acquainted and communicate with peers, share toys, and give gifts. Optimists know how to overcome obstacles on their own or relying on friendly support. By the way, the ability to ask a friend for help or advice is also of great importance. A lonely person, unable to find like-minded people and friends, is unlikely to be successful and will be able to achieve much.
