Any parents want to bring up a child cheerful and happy, and they do their best for this. And how can you bring up a successful person who can realize himself and his talents in adulthood?
The child should feel that his parents love him. The key to any successful person is good, correct self-esteem. Parents need to show that they love him for who he is and for who he is. Talk to your baby about this as often as possible, hug him more often and respect all his impulses and aspirations. If, for example, a child needs to go to bed, but he is still playing, it is better not to shout at him, but to help him finish the game, finish the house, defeat the dragon, and then put him to bed. Also, do not criticize the child, it is necessary to criticize his actions.
The child should always be given the right to choose. It can be a trivial and simple choice, for example, what will he wear for a walk. Even if it is simple, the child will see that his opinion is being listened to. Discuss movies, cartoons, books or situations with him and always ask what he thinks in each situation.
The child must be able to negotiate. This is a very useful skill when it comes to raising a successful person. It is necessary to develop the child's eloquence, teach him to express his thoughts on this or that occasion and in different situations.
Help your child find the very thing to which he wants to devote his life. All people have their own talents and abilities. Observe your child to see which activity is most interesting to him and try to develop him in that direction. Remember: the earlier you start developing, the better. Of course, in the future, he can move away from this business and do something else, but the accumulated years of experience will always come to the advantage.
You also need to notice and develop creative skills. From an early age, it is necessary to teach the child creativity, that is, draw with him, write poetry, play music or dance. This is very useful in solving problems in adulthood, because a creative person will find an infinite number of solutions.
The child needs to be taught responsibility. The child should feel responsible for what he did and what he did, but you should not scold the child, just help him find the best way out of the situation. It will also be important to show by example that the once given word needs to be kept.
A successful person is an optimist in life. In a bad situation, you always need to see something good, and this is extremely important for a successful person. It is necessary to explain to the child that victories can be changed by defeats, and this is normal. Here it will also be useful to show optimism by example.
A successful person values time. The child should be constantly busy with something, uncomplicated, but always with something, and gradually this quality will become an excellent habit.
And, of course, this is independence. From the age of two, the child shows independence, and this is great. You need to give him the opportunity to do something on his own and not rush to do it for him. Just be patient a little and see what the child does.
Remember that a child is a sponge, so he will absorb everything that family and life presents to him.
