The first sex for guys and girls is a very exciting event. A little fear in this situation is quite natural, but you do not need to bring it to hysteria or panic.
Sex is a completely natural activity for two loving people, therefore, you need to treat it calmly, then everything will work out. Well, if one of the partners is at least a little more experienced than the other, then he will be able to show and guide the virgin. But it often happens that both the guy and the girl decide to have sex for the first time. This is also an absolutely normal state of affairs and there is no need to worry before the event.
Don't be shy about your virginity
For starters, don't be afraid to admit that you are a virgin. For both the girl and the guy, there is nothing shameful about it. Virginity means, of course, a lack of experience, but it also means that a guy or a girl decided to give himself for the first time to this particular partner, for him it is a great honor. And if such a partner truly loves, he will never turn virginity into something humiliating. On the contrary, virginity means the absence of a violent sex life and partner illnesses, which is already a lot. In addition, if both are virgins, then they will not have to worry about their experience of intimate relationships, since there will be no one to compare with.
Try to relax
The second step is to relax and start enjoying the process. Do not think about pain or failure, devote all your attention to your partner and his pleasure. Organize a romantic dinner together with some wine. Then, with pleasant music, you can start caressing. Be sure to arouse each other before sex, it is important that both partners are absorbed by each other so that this process captures them. Then the onset of sexual activity will take place more naturally. Remember that not only the moment of intimacy is important for girls, but also tactile sensations, courtship, pleasant words. Slowly undress each other, dim the lights, because for the first time many girls and boys will be ashamed of each other. During caresses, it is important to say pleasant words, to calm down your partner, to say how much you love him. This will give you and him confidence. It is best to arrange in advance to begin intercourse only when both of you are ready.
Decide to take action
The young man needs to make sure that the girl is sufficiently aroused and the lubricant has already been released from her vagina, otherwise she will be very painful. Then the partner should spread the girl's legs to the sides, carefully insert the penis into the vagina, push it forward sharply and stop. At this moment, many girls experience pain from damage to the hymen, blood may even be released from the vagina. This is an absolutely normal process, and if the girl is still ready for further caresses and sex, it is better for her partner to continue moving. But if the girl says that she is in pain, it is better to stop the process immediately. In a few days, when everything heals with her, you can have real pleasure.
First sex is not a competition between young people. It may not turn out as perfect as young people imagine. But not all things turn out well the first time. Just take it for granted that with the first sex, any mistake is possible and everything is forgiven to you. And don't treat it like a tragedy or a failure.
