Some girls, in principle, do not get to know young people first. However, there are a large number of subtle female tools, with the help of which the dating initiative will formally come from a young man. To do this, you just need to know how to properly attract the attention of a man.
Instructions
Step 1
Try to keep eye contact. This can instill in the young person the confidence that if he approaches you, you will not refuse him. As you know, men are afraid of rejection. However, it is important not to overdo it and not ruin everything. It is worth keeping eye contact for no more than 5 seconds. Then you can modestly look away.
Step 2
The posture you are doing is also important, because it is a strong non-verbal signal. Your posture should be open and relaxed, and moderately seductive.
Step 3
Smiling is one of the most powerful flirting tools. With its help, you can show the guy you like that you are a friendly person and open to communication with him.
Step 4
Try to be alone for a while. The thing is that, from a psychological point of view, it is much more difficult for a man to approach a girl who is in the circle of his friends. If you want a guy you like to get to know you, you can, for example, get up and go to the bar. In this situation, you will be left without the company of your friends.
Step 5
Try to pretend like you need help to place an order. And it's pretty easy to do. As you know, there are always a lot of people at the bar and you need to apply a lot of effort to attract the attention of the bartender. Try a couple of doomed attempts and then start sighing. Just don't make it too pretentious. A man, like a true gentleman, will have to offer you his help.
Step 6
You can start a conversation yourself and nudge him towards acquaintance. For example, go to the bar and ask him if there is this or that cocktail, or ask any other unobtrusive question. Then you just have to wait for him to take the initiative and take matters into his own hands.
Step 7
Try, as if by chance, to touch it. There is usually a whole crowd of people near the bar. Passing by, you can, as if by accident, slightly push him with your hand, touch him with hair, or, putting your hand on his shoulders, ask him to let you pass.
