Love is gone. For you, this is already a fact, and the girl may be in the dark until the last moment. In order not to remain in her memory the most disgusting man in life, you need to make the separation as painless as possible.
Instructions
Step 1
Before you talk to your girlfriend about breaking up, think about why you want to break up with her. If parting is a means of blackmail in order to achieve something, then think again whether it is worth going to extreme measures. Or maybe she began to pay less attention to you.
Analyze the situation, maybe your feelings have cooled down, maybe some changes in both partners led to the desire to leave.
Step 2
Never shift the blame for wanting to break up with your girlfriend. Even if her share of fault in the breakup, from your point of view, outweighs yours. Take responsibility for yourself, so that later in this girl you loved it was not scary to build a relationship with another person.
Step 3
If you are thinking about how you can resume the relationship in the future, then discuss those moments that do not suit you, what can be changed in the relationship so that your couple does not break up.
If the decision is final, then you need to simply and firmly say that you are parting, without giving false hopes.
Step 4
Do not respond to her calls, SMS. The wound of the soul must heal.
Step 5
Of course, you could part with friends, but few people believe in friendship between a woman and a man. Most likely, the girl will begin to perceive you as one of her friends with whom you can talk about everything, including new novels.
Step 6
You can write a farewell letter, but it is undesirable to do so, as this deprives the girl of the opportunity to present her arguments. Deprives a beautiful farewell date, the last bouquet, the last kiss …
