Rarely does a girl not get into such a situation: she likes him, he seems to like her too. She sighs, looks at him languidly. But the guy for some reason does not give out his feelings in any way, does not pay attention, does not surprise, does not invite either to a cafe or to a cinema. He only looks furtively in her direction and waits for something … What to do, how to get the guy to act?
Instructions
Step 1
He may be waiting for you to take the first step. As you walk by, smile at him and lower your eyes. Pretend to be embarrassed. Guys love inaccessible girls. Moreover, the spirit of the hunter is still alive in them. Therefore, the phrases “Hello! Let's get acquainted! will be superfluous if you want a long and romantic relationship. Do the trick with a smile and eyes every time you meet him. Find yourself more often in the places where he is. At the same time, pretend that you are here completely by accident or make it clear that it is he who is pursuing you everywhere, but you do not mind if he starts to act.
Step 2
Explore his interests: cinema, music, sports, books. Try to understand and love these hobbies. This will give you a variety of topics and reasons for conversation. As if by chance, show the guy that you have a lot in common - accidentally drop the disc with the songs of his favorite band, get the work of his favorite author and start reading, sincerely worry in the sports bar for the play of his favorite team.
Step 3
If you have mutual acquaintances, persuade them to hint to him at the opportunity that the girl he is looking at is also not indifferent to him. But her modesty and upbringing does not allow getting to know each other first.
Step 4
Take a look in your wardrobe. How long have you pampered yourself with new things? Get some flashy (but not vulgar !!!) items that will set you apart from the crowd. Become individual, unlike anyone else. Just do not overdo it, in everything you need to know when to stop.
Step 5
Don't flirt with other guys in front of him. Otherwise, he will think that the territory is already occupied, and the chances of recapturing it may not be equal. Show that the seat next to you is vacant and that he can count on it.
Step 6
When a guy finally decides to approach you, don't show him your greatest joy. Be cool, but also polite and courteous. Make it clear that you are not against a relationship with him, but first you have to win. Hint that you will not torment him for a long time, but afterwards you will both be satisfied with the result.
