Years go by, but you are still alone. The realization that the main thing in life is love is there. But the feeling itself is still not there. It's time to put an end to the book of lonely life and lure love. How to do it?
Instructions
Step 1
Be ready for love, open, because it can come at any time. This does not mean that you need to lunge towards every person you like of the opposite sex, but it should not be ignored either. Be friendly, smile, be interested in what is happening around.
Step 2
Pay attention to the appearance. If you haven't updated your wardrobe for a long time, now is the time to do it. Shop for trendy clothes, shoes and accessories. Take care of a trendy hairstyle or haircut. Hair should frame the face beautifully, and not be like tow.
Step 3
Start by loving yourself. This does not mean selfishness or narcissism. Psychologists say that a person can love another only when he loves himself. Let's take this moment as a basis. This state is about accepting yourself for who you really are. It may not be easy to fall in love with yourself, sad or angry, but it is part of any person as well as kindness, caring, sincerity. Each of us has any quality that exists in the world, only in different proportions. By accepting these feelings in yourself, it will be easier for you to understand the other person.
Step 4
Clean up the house, because this is the abode of love. Are you comfortable in your home? Do you want to be there, to spend time? Sometimes, in order to become comfortable, you just need to move furniture or change the environment. Buy new curtains, buy beautiful bedding. Remove all symbols of loneliness from the apartment. We are talking about unpaired objects or images. Lonely people often hang pictures that evoke sadness, acquire statuettes symbolizing hermitism. Instead, buy paired figurines, plant two trees in the pot at once, and find a second pillow for your bed.
Step 5
Communicate with the opposite sex, make eye contact, touch each other, smile. Love is built on mutual sympathy. The eyes are the mirror of the soul, and somewhere there lives a bright joyful feeling that needs to be revived or simply released outside.
Send love with a glance, and when you want to say, say the important words: "I love you."
