Many women in a man with whom they meet and spend time see not only a temporary partner, but also expect to marry him and have children. It is always worth considering before an important step in a relationship and checking a man for feelings: is he really so ideal, is his feelings sincere, is his relationship serious. After all, the further future depends on your feelings.
Instructions
Step 1
Ask yourself the question: do you love each other equally? Maybe one of the partners does not receive love in return, but only gives.
Step 2
Make the man feel jealous. Try to play in front of his eyes with a friend or just smile at a stranger. Watch his reaction: if you are not indifferent to him, then he will definitely make a remark to you, and you will feel that he is jealous.
Step 3
See if he cares about you. Getting out of the car, does it give you a hand, does it hold the door in front of you, helps to carry the weight. The desire to help in the little things makes it clear that he sincerely, on a subconscious level, cares about you.
Step 4
View your e-mail or sms correspondence. Pay attention to how he finishes his messages, whether there are words of love in them: "hug", "kiss", "miss". If a man is embarrassed to express his feelings to you even in this form, then his intentions are clearly not serious.
Step 5
Have a heart-to-heart talk with your man about your past relationship. If he doesn't talk about something, hides the facts, this speaks of his distrust. A man is not yet ready to open up to new relationships and is experiencing old feelings.
Step 6
Ask to go to a meeting with his friends. For men, the opinion of his entourage is in the first place, and if he is embarrassed to introduce you, then he is not sure of his feelings and the further development of your relationship. He doesn't associate the two of you as a real couple.
Step 7
Ask your girlfriend and her boyfriend to go on a date with you, for example, to a cafe, to check his man's feelings. Let her observe his behavior: whether he respects you, whether he shows invisible signs of attention. She knows you not the first day and from the outside, sometimes, it is better to know whether you are suitable for each other or it turns out that the man says unpleasant things behind your back.
Step 8
Ask a man to do a little favor for you: burn a movie to disk or a compilation of music. This will let you know if he is ready to spend some of his personal time on you. Watch the result: he will remember your request and how quickly he will fulfill it. If he completely forgot about your simple request, then he is not ready to spend the free minutes of his life on you.