Some girls in love want to spend as much time with their beloved as possible, see and communicate more often. But there is a fine line here, crossing which you turn into an annoying lady from whom you want to escape. It is very important to be able to show your love without looking intrusive.
Instructions
Step 1
Don't plan his life. If you are going to meet over the weekend, ask his opinion in advance. After all, he can promise his friends to spend time together before that, and your sudden offer will knock him out of his rut. Even if he prefers his friends to you, do not be upset and understand - he also has the right to choose. Show that you are not offended and are not angry.
Step 2
Don't control his every step. Stop calling every hour with the question "where and with whom are you?", Do not arrange an interrogation with addiction after his late arrival. Learn to trust him and let him do what you love in your free time. In no case, do not read his correspondence on the phone or social networks.
Step 3
Find something you like and spend your free time doing it. If you have your own hobby, you will not constantly need his company. Moreover, when you immerse yourself in your occupation, he will grab your attention, and you will switch roles.
Step 4
Don't adjust to it. Compromises are essential in a relationship, but don't make senseless sacrifices. Do not force yourself to watch sports programs, do not go with him to all meetings with friends, if you are sick of the smell of beer and talk about cars makes you sleepy.
Step 5
Do not impose your care and custody on him. He does not need a second mother who carefully wraps him in a scarf and advises him to wear warm socks. Let him make his own decisions about his life and take care of himself.
Step 6
Watch his reaction to your conversations. If you like to talk a lot, be sure to watch his behavior. He may not be interested in your shopping stories or gossip from work, so move the conversation to a more engaging topic.
Step 7
Do not demand constant attention to yourself, learn to enjoy your company. He cannot constantly confess his love and tell how wonderful you are. He needs time to go about his business, and at this time you go about yours.
