Self-love is an important part of life's success. Until you love yourself, you find it difficult to count on others to accept you. Self-love helps in both work and personal life. But some of us take an effort to learn to have tender feelings for ourselves.
Instructions
Step 1
Pay attention to personal successes and achievements. They are in the life of every person. People who do not know how to love themselves differ from those around them in that they do not notice their true achievements. A warm and cozy home, good relationships in the team, well-being, great friends, academic success can be an occasion for you to evaluate your personal contribution to the life success of your environment.
Step 2
Temporarily ignore your flaws. Everyone has vices and shortcomings. But if you want to learn to love yourself, temporarily limit your thinking about them. Instead of mentally reverting to failure, think about how you would like to behave in a similar situation in the future. Take a break from analyzing gaps with books or movies.
Step 3
Stop focusing on others. Understand what is important to you. You can build a dacha as large as that of your neighbor Masha. But do you really need a big dacha? Do you prefer compact houses that are easy to clean and create a cozy atmosphere? Love and respect your aspirations, even if they are different from those of others.
Step 4
Reduce communication with enemies. Do not revel in scandals or conflicts. Try to ignore detractors. There are people who don’t care who they want to release their negativity to. Try not to accumulate such among your friends. And if there are any among your relatives, dose communication with them. Their point of view should not convince you of the hopelessness of earthly existence. People who are friends with optimists tend to love themselves more. Consider this when forming your circle of acquaintances.
