Closure, fear of doing something wrong or simply expressing one's point of view, gives rise to eternal insecurity in the child's mind. Uncertain behavior is common in every person, but only in childhood can serious problems in the future be prevented.
Instructions
Step 1
To build self-confidence in your child and avoid serious consequences later in life, it is recommended that you do the following: Insist that the child speaks and proves his point of view on any issue related to him or her personally or your family. Motivate this by the fact that his opinion is very important to you. Thank your child if he dares to open up to you. In this way, you will contribute to an increase in his self-esteem and level of significance.
Step 2
Increase your child's communication with peers with different personalities and interests. For example, enroll your child in several sections or circles. Analyze his behavior with each group of children, identify his weaknesses, explain how you can get out of this or that situation in different ways and their consequences.
Step 3
Do ridiculous things sometimes. Your inappropriate and funny words or actions will help develop self-confidence in the child, this will clearly show that not only he can do something wrong or ridiculous, he will see that no one scolds or insults him for this.
Step 4
Provoke the child to light discussions that require defending his opinion, do not agree with the child until he provides weighty arguments (appropriate for his age) in favor of his innocence. Reward and praise his initiative and perseverance.
Step 5
Use settings. Say as often as possible that he is responsible, erudite, neat, attentive and confident. Be sure to back up compliments with compelling examples from his life. Teach your child to talk about himself with such attitudes on his own. It will take some time for the child to really believe what he is saying and to begin to select examples to prove it.
