A dad who takes an active part in the life and upbringing of children is the dream of any woman. Unfortunately, many fathers are removed from the daily worries of a newborn baby, and when he grows up, they are surprised that it is difficult for them to find a common language with their child.
Instructions
Step 1
From the first days of a child's life, involve your husband in caring for the baby. Any dad is capable of holding a baby, getting up to him at night, changing a diaper, changing clothes, going for a walk, rocking, doing gymnastics and massage. Over the years, the role of the father in the child's life increases. The older the baby gets, the more he begins to listen to his dad, adopts his inclinations and interests. If the father hammers in a nail, the one and a half year old baby will also grab the hammer, the father sits on the sofa with a book - the baby also joins in next to him. The child understands that the competence of the mother is to dress, feed, and ensure a comfortable existence. And the father's prerogative is to conduct intellectual conversations, to do “significant”, male deeds. Therefore, it is very important for dad to monitor his words and deeds.
Step 2
A father can be an excellent teacher: show the child how to assemble a constructor correctly, glue an airplane model, make a snowman. Dad is not only a role model for his son, he is also a role model for his daughter. The future family life of the girl, the type of young man she chooses as her life partner depends on how he behaves with her and her mother. Let the dad give the baby not only toys and dolls, but also flowers, admire his daughter, kiss and hug her more often. To be a positive example of a man, a father must play games with children, where he can not only be brave, athletic, strong, but also be kind, reasonable, gentle.
Step 3
Even if dad works hard, he will be able to make up for participation in the life of the children for several hours a week. It is important that the father devotes this time only to the child, without being distracted by telephone conversations, reading a newspaper, etc. This communication should be full of value. You can take your child with you on hikes, skiing, skating together, playing sports, walking in the park, forest, swimming in the pool, going to the cinema, shopping, etc. And dad will be able to check his homework and read a book before going to bed just as well as mom.
