Having found a guy with his best friend in the same bed, a hundred thoughts rush through the girl's head. It is impossible to decide what to do if you are shocked and offended. It takes time to reassess what happened.
Having found a friend with her boyfriend in the same bed, 70% of all girls prefer to silently leave the room. And in a sense, this action is the most correct. How to proceed further depends on the circumstances.
What to do with a friend
If a friend is in the same bed with your boyfriend, then you should think about whether she is a friend at all. Close and dear people do not agree to such a betrayal. Perhaps kicking your friend out of your social circle would be the best solution. So nothing will remind you of betrayal.
If friendly feelings in you are stronger than resentment and anger, then it is worth talking to your friend about her actions. In a calm atmosphere, when you stop being angry and mentally think over a plan for revenge, discuss with her what happened. Try to understand the motives of her actions, what exactly prompted her to take this step.
If the anger and resentment in you is too strong, then do not try to take revenge in the heat of the moment. The best solution would be a little rest. Spend a few days away from traitors. For example, outside the city. Do not call angry messages to your friend, do not call her, try to forget about her. Let off steam on something else. For example, in strength training.
What to do with a guy
50% of girls, according to experts, leave cheaters immediately. Moreover, the blow was inflicted not only on them. The decision to leave is not always the only correct one in such a delicate situation, but it is definitely the simplest one. Be sure to let your boyfriend know about the breakup. It depends on him how correct and final your decision will be.
The other 50% of girls can forgive the cheater for such a betrayal. And it costs a lot of moral effort. First, the guy not only betrayed romantic feelings, but also served as a catalyst for the destruction of female friendship. Secondly, the behavior of a guy after such exposure can be unpredictable. Watch the young man's reaction. If he feels guilty, he will do everything to deserve forgiveness. And if he considers his behavior to be normal, then it may be worth giving up such a relationship.
Double betrayal is difficult to forgive, but quite possible. When emotions subside, try to weigh everything, look at the situation with a fresh look, understand the motives of both your friend and your boyfriend. Do not act rashly in the heat of the moment. Discuss the situation with the traitors, try to listen to them. To make emotions subside faster, abstract from what happened. For example, be active in your studies or work, devote more time to your hobbies.
