A former boyfriend, especially if it was he who became the girl's first love, will be remembered by her forever. But life does not stand still, after the breakup, people continue to meet, marry, have children. But, what if the former love burst into your measured life again?
Why an ex-boyfriend can write
Once you met him, and you started a romantic relationship. You were in love and quite happy, but something went wrong. The relationship between a man and a woman is a kind of contract that is built on sexual, love, friendship, financial or psychological components. If some point of the "agreement" is not fulfilled, people disperse.
Parting can be quite painful. But sometimes it becomes even more painful if the ex starts to assert himself again. As a rule, this happens at the most unexpected moment, when you are already doing well without him, and even more often when a husband and children appear.
There are many reasons why a former lover might write. It is necessary to pay attention not only to the fact that he suddenly showed up, but also to what exactly he writes to you.
If he mostly writes about how his business is going, most likely, he just decided to show you that he is fine without you. If he talks about his new woman, job, car, etc., then he wants you to regret breaking up with such a "great guy." This reason for your communication lies on the surface, but if you dig deeper, you can see his feelings, which have not yet extinguished. Judge logically, why would a person who is already happy to tell you about this? Definitely, he is still not indifferent to you, even if he himself still does not understand it.
If the ex is more interested in your life, then he is all the more cool towards you. Thus, he shows signs of attention to you, because not every man knows how to listen to a woman.
If a former love is openly telling you about their feelings, you must make an important decision for yourself.
Should you go back to your ex
Immediately remember what caused your breakup. After all, it's not for nothing that you broke off relations with him last time. Is it worth making the same mistake again?
Think about your real life. If you have a reliable man and are afraid of losing him, be careful when texting with your ex. Make a comparative description of your two lovers and compare the feelings you have for each of them.
Remember, there are guys out there who text ex-girlfriend just to unsettle them. Some of them want revenge for being abandoned.
In any case, it's up to you to decide how to answer him and whether it's worth answering at all. Listen to your heart, and it will tell you why your former love has returned to you.
