It is harder to keep love in a marriage than it is during gentle courtship and romantic encounters. Spouses sometimes believe that now that the object of sighing has been conquered, they can relax and behave the way they want. And then the beloved person does not appear in the best light and discovers unpleasant qualities …
Instructions
Step 1
If you find that your husband does not consider you and does not even respect you, think about how it started. Perhaps you also relaxed and stopped hiding some of your shortcomings? Remember to treat people the way you want to be treated. If any of your everyday habits annoy your loved one, try to get rid of them.
Step 2
Try to be a good wife and housewife so that your husband will be pleased to return to a cozy warm house where he will be deliciously fed. If a showdown begins, do not turn it into a torrent of insults. Discuss the specific situation, not the identity of the husband or his relatives. If your husband starts to offend, just say that you will not talk in that tone. Better hold back - anyway, not a single problem can be solved in this way, the situation will only get worse.
Step 3
Don't bother your husband with constant monitoring. Don't call him every hour with questions: “Where are you? How are you doing? If he has a desire to share, he will come home in the evening and tell everything himself.
Step 4
Do not forget about your interests and occupations that you were fond of before the wedding, do not lose old friends. If you have made your husband the meaning of your life, then you involuntarily lower your value as a person in his eyes and instill in him the confidence that you will not go anywhere, no matter how he behaves.
Step 5
Remember that your love is of great value. Do not impose it on your husband and do not try to earn affection if you see that your ingratiation irritates him. Do something interesting - your spouse may soon want to talk to you himself.
Step 6
Do not always strive to spend the weekend together if you see that your husband is totally against it. Let him know that you can have a good rest without him. Of course, having a good rest doesn't mean watching TV all day long. Go somewhere with your friends or with your child, and then enthusiastically look at the photos of the places you have been. If the husband comes to the monitor, you can lower the picture down - this is your personal space, which the spouse did not want to share.
