A woman's misunderstanding of a man is one of the most common causes of difficulties in developing and maintaining relationships. To eliminate this misunderstanding, it is necessary to understand the difference between the psychology of a woman and the psychology of a man. And then build communication based on these differences.
Often a woman cannot understand a man because of the peculiarities of thinking and the peculiarities of communication arising from them. Female communication has a significant emotional component. In a conversation, she wants to express her feelings, views, feelings, to show her attitude to something. Male communication is based on logic, on facts, on the exchange of necessary information. That is why, when a woman wants to speak out in front of a man, in response she receives silence or misunderstanding.
Don't ask him for advice or a ready-made solution to your problem. In this case, the man will go into thought and reflection. If you ask to just keep the conversation going, he will just start communicating with you, without going deep in thought.
Many men do not understand hints and allegories. Therefore, state your desires without any ambiguities and omissions. If you want something sweet, ask him to buy this and that. So that he clearly understands what they want from him. Undoubtedly, you need to ask politely and gently, in an affectionate tone. The same applies to all aspects of your relationship, your life together, everyday life, etc. Do not think that a man will himself guess about your desires. Be direct about what you want.
Men are not emotional
Don't be offended by a man if he doesn't talk about your attractiveness every day. Many men are brought up to be reserved and used to restrain their emotions. Even if they overwhelm them. Do not be offended if the man did not notice your new dress, your new hairstyle. Pay attention to the changes in appearance yourself and ask him how he likes it. And even more so, do not freak out if the man's answer is true and he criticizes you.
Don't keep the man on a short leash. Do not control him constantly: where he went, where he spent the extra money, why did he act this way and not otherwise. The shorter the leash, the stronger the desire to get rid of it.
Men need a certain freedom of action and movement, freedom to make decisions on their own, freedom to manage some money themselves.
When men are silent
Do not be offended if a man is silent for a long time and does not pay attention to you. Like any person, he occasionally wants to be alone with his thoughts. As a rule, if a woman is silent for a long time, then most likely she is offended. A man can be silent, being completely satisfied with life and being in a good mood. Believe me, if you give him peace when he needs it, after a while he will come to you.
