Finding real friends is not easy. Close people will always come to the rescue and help overcome difficulties, brighten up loneliness and become a constant source of good mood. It is important to understand how you become friends in order to be closer to certain people and to establish contact with them.
Instructions
Step 1
Feel free to meet people. It is the new acquaintances who, over time, can become your best friends. If a person speaks to you, for example, in a store or subway, asked for help or just smiled and wished him a good day, be sure to answer him, offer to meet and chat. If you felt mutual sympathy, then you have every chance to get together and become true friends in the future.
Step 2
Pay attention to the people around you: for a long time you study or work in the same team, get to the place of work by transport with the same people, constantly encounter neighbors at home. Among them there are surely those with whom they like to communicate, who arouse sympathy by their very appearance. You especially need to pay attention to those who have common interests and hobbies with you. Be sure to chat with these people and you will be surprised how easy it is to make friends.
Step 3
Spend as much time as possible with those who are dear to you. Share your common interests, have fun and chat on various topics. Remember that if you are confident in a person, you can rely on him, entrust even your innermost secrets without worrying that he will tell them to someone else, then he is a real friend for you. Also try to trust your friends as much as they trust you, listen to their advice.
Step 4
Appreciate and respect your friends. Be responsive and benevolent, do not argue or quarrel over trifles, be able to find a compromise and organize your daily routine in such a way that there is time for communication and meetings with loved ones. Don't be selfish and remember that everyone has the right to be friends with several people at once, so don't narrow your circle of friends just so that they can spend more time with you.
